Iimeko zemozulu ezibonisa ikwindla kunye nobusika zingumngcipheko owongezelelweyo ekuqhubeni. Izinto ezifana nemvula, inkungu, umkhenkce nekhephu zitshintsha kakhulu iimeko zendlela. Ngesi sizathu, laa ndlela sihamba ngayo phantse yonke imihla ivale amehlo ithatha iikhonto ezintsha kunye nezinye iingozi ezingaziwayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ngoko musa ukwenza kube lula! Kuxhomekeke kuthi ukuba sizikhusele kwaye samkele indlela yokuziphatha elungelelaniswe neemeko kunye neemeko esijongene nazo endleleni.
Zimbini izinto eziphambili ezinegalelo ekwandeni kwengozi yokuqhuba emvuleni: a ukungabikho kokubonakala kwaye i ukubamba buthathaka.
Isizathu Imoto ikunika iingcebiso zokunqanda ukungonwabi ngoku imvula iyeyona inkulu (kwaye iyingozi kakhulu…) iqabane lakho lokuhamba. Ke funda ngononophelo iingcebiso zethu ukuze unciphise izehlo zezi zinto zingalunganga:
cwangcisa kwangaphambili
Zama ukulindela ukusabela kwezinye izithuthi endleleni, ukuze usabele ngokukhawuleza. Ukucwangcisa kwangaphambili kuya kukuvumela ukuba uqhube ngaphandle kokubhenela kuhlobo lwe 'Hollywood' olunokuthi lube neziphumo ezibi kakhulu, ngakumbi kwindawo emanzi kunye nemtyibilizi.
Lumkela "amashiti amanzi"
Xa udlula phezu kwazo, kufuneka ukwenze ngokucothayo kwaye uthintele ifuthe lamanzi angalinganisi isithuthi kwaye abangele ukuba sityibilike – ukuba oko kuyenzeka, musa ukuyeka! Endaweni yoko, kufuneka 'ukhulule' kwaye uzame ukulawula isithuthi ngokucofa ivili lokuqhuba, ujike amavili kwicala elinye nelokutyibilika. Ukuba ubona ukuba ukungena "kwiphepha lamanzi" akunakugwenywa, zama ukwenza ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Sebenzisa izibane «diphini»
Ngokubonakala kakubi, awunayo kuphela into yokuba ubone ngcono, kodwa kulula ngakumbi ukuba abanye abaqhubi bakubone.
Yandisa umgama wokhuseleko kwisithuthi esingaphambili
Ngomgangatho otyibilikayo, umgama wokumisa uyanda, ngoko ke ukuba kukho imfuneko, ngokugcina umgama okhuselekileyo okhuselekileyo, uya kuba nexesha lokwenza okuthile, unciphisa ingozi yengozi.Ukujikeleza ngesantya esiphakathi ngokukodwa
Isantya yeyona nto iphambili ekonyuseni umngcipheko wokutyibilika kunye nokunyusa umgama wokuqhobosha - osele uthintelwe kukungabambeki kakuhle… - isantya kufuneka sihambelane neemeko zendlela. Ngoko nikela ingqalelo kwisantya.
Qaphela imimoya ebhudla ngamandla
Izaqhwithi zasekwindla zidla ngokuzisa imimoya ebhudla ngamandla ebetha imoto ecaleni ize itshintshe icala ngequbuliso. Kuya kufuneka ulumke kwaye uthathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza ukuze uphinde ube nolawulo, ke soloko ugcina izandla zakho evilini kunye nengqalelo yakho kwezinye izithuthi.Lungisa ulawulo lokufudumeza
Phambi kokuba uthathe uhambo, lungisa izixhobo zokulawula ukufudumeza ukwenzela ukuba xa kukho ukujiya kwefestile yefestile kungabikho mfuneko yokuba uphambukise ingqalelo yakho endleleni.
